This is the story of overcoming the odds and the power of 'the will to live'. Our daughter continues to fight after being diagnosed with 'Hydrops Fetalis', given very little chance to live, arriving 6 weeks early and battling 'Chylothorax' each day.
We hope this story will give promise and inspiration to other parents who have been diagnosed similarly to Harper and are seeking a positive outlook.
"Every little thing gonna be all right!"
If this is your first time visiting our blog, please feel free to read the 'Preface' (1st post) from July 20th.
Saturday, July 21, 2012
Three Little Birds
On Monday when Karen and I got the news about our future baby's situation, we went back to our room in complete shock. We didn't say much to one another while I wheeled her back and when we got to the room we just sat there for a few moments. Karen got up to go to the bathroom and I plugged my phone into the docking station and started Pandora radio on "Jack Johnson Radio". The first song that came on was Bob Marley's "Three Little Birds."
"Don't worry bout a thing... Cause every little thing gonna be all right!"
I immediately came to tears and got a smile on my face. When Karen came out of the bathroom I pointed out the song that was playing and told her that it was a sign. It cheered both of us up a little hearing that song in particular.
During the next 16 hours of moving rooms, laboring and delivery we consistently had the same Pandora station on to help soothe Karen and lighten the mood. As the doctors finished with the initial resuscitation in the delivery room and stabilized her enough for us tohold her hand, "Three Little Birds" came on the radio again.
"Don't worry bout a thing... Cause every little thing gonna be all right!"
Karen and I were in shock that that song was played at those two times. At the moment, I jokingly said to Karen, "Let's namer her Bob!"
The next day, Wednesday, I took my Dad in to the room to see Harper. He came in and noticed her information tag on the front of the incubator. He asked, "Was she born at 8:25?". I told him that she was and he then told me, "Those were your Grandpa's numbers. He used to play them every time he played the lottery... 8 - 2 - 5. You should name her Bob." My grandpa's name was Bob Wilson. I then told my Dad the story of the Bob Marley song from the previous day and that I had made the same joke about naming her Bob. I know my Grandpa was looking out for the three of us on Tuesday.
Later in the day on Wednesday I started to tell my Mom and sister that story from the beginning... Starting with hearing "Three Little Birds" on Monday. As soon as I mentioned the song, my Mom started tearing up. She said, "That was the song that we played at your Uncle Kenny's funeral. It was his favorite song." This made the three of us just start crying. My family was certainly looking out for us. Uncle Kenny and Grandpa were looking down on us, and I am sure that Grandma was doing the same.
So... That is why I now call Harper "Little Bird" and plan on getting a Bob Marley picture up in her nursery, which is 'music' themed! It all worked out and we're not gonna worry, cause every little thing gonna be all right.
=W=
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Wes and Karen,
ReplyDeleteI am so happy to read that things are getting better for your little bundle ofjoy! Reading your post today just made me tear up. My Carlos was born premature with fluid in his lungs as well, so I have a slight idea of the stress you are under. She will be home with you soon and your adventure will really begin! My thoughts and prayers go out to you three.
Jane Botella
What a beautiful story, Wes! I also cried as I read the series of events. It seems all your angels are named Bob! I look forward to all the good news yet to come. You, Karen and "Little Bird" are in my prayers and you have all my love and support. If there's anything you need, just ask.
ReplyDeleteI love this story. XO - Nate
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